A Writer’s Life in Thailand
I’m
excited about doing a guest post at JELLO WORLD with J. Lea Lopez!
Thank you, kind lady.
I’m
an American writer and I’ve been living in Thailand for the past 9
years with my beautiful wife. We have a small farm where we grow
tropical and not so tropical fruits, veggies, and main crop of either
corn or tapioca. I have also published 3 novels and have a new one
coming out very soon.
Many
people ask me, “Why Thailand?” The answer is: I needed to get
away from all the hustle, bustled, electronics and decision making.
My brain needed a break. Also my wife was born in Thailand and I had
kept her away for many years raising a family and caring for a
wonderful husband… me. I have wanted to take her home for a while,
but the honest truth is I did it more for me than her. One of the
things I’ve learn here in Thailand is honest thoughts.
Many
foreigners who come here and to other exotic lands seek out
communities of foreigners to live near. Me? I came determined to
learn the language (or die trying) and just get away from it all for
a while. I live in a rural area where I’m
it
when it comes to foreigners. That while
has lasted nine years so far. I can speak Thai now. I don’t claim
that I can stand up and deliver a speech about the meaning of life
but I do well enough to get along with everyone.
I’ve
always led a simple life—starving artists tend to do that—so the
culture shock wasn’t a major player. The hardest thing that I still
haven’t learned to do is stop waving or speaking to nearly everyone
I pass. I’m a Southerner and I tend to talk rather than think in
many situations. My wife got in the habit of walking behind me—way
behind me—so she wouldn’t blush all the time. Over time my
neighbors have learned the American ‘wave’ and laugh at my
antics. My wife even walks beside me now. Yeah.
Thailand
is known as The Land of Smiles and it is a befitting name. These
wonderful people take life as it comes to them and always seem happy.
I think it’s the heat. I love to go to the morning markets and
watch the beautiful women gliding along buying fresh vegetables and
everything necessary for the day. I walk around talking to the Mea
Ka,
the sellers, and Lukka,
the buyers, and just enjoy myself.
Dannie and Sam the cat |
As
a writer, the quieted sounds of English allow my daydreams to come to
life in words. There is such a peace here my muse is happy and words
rush out faster than I can write them down. Just ask my editor! I
can write back in the States but it’s an effort to find the peace I
need. In Thailand it’s just a morning away.
I
was in a war two countries away, lived in Budapest for a short time,
lived in the Marshall Islands for two years and visited a number of
countries, and I must say Thailand is my favorite for the people, the
beauty of the land and the food. It’s a place I know you would
enjoy.
To learn more about Dannie, check out his blog here, or learn more about his books here.
Thank you for having me, Jen. You have a great website, I just hope I haven't scared anyone off, lol.
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